R is for Rules
R is for RulesRules can apply to both kink and polyamorous relationships.It is obvious that this post got started, queued up and published without being finished. I'm not in the headspace to finish it...
View ArticleS is for Safewords
S is for SafewordsSafewords are a tool used by submissives/bottoms to let their dominant/top know how they're feeling as the scene is happening. You can come up with any word you want in your dynamic...
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TMI Tuesday July 24, 2018
Free yourself. . .1. What do you need to learn but won’t admit to?I need to learn to take better care of myself physically. I need to stop being so anxious and worrying so much but I have no idea how...
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Elust 109
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View ArticleT is for Time
T is for TimeI've had a post about time bouncing around in my head for a bit. I was going to tell you about balancing time between two relationships, school, work, sleep, hobbies, chores, etc etc.Then...
View ArticleGrieving while Poly
I never thought of what it would be like to go through the grieving process while in a poly relationship. There had been secondary relationships that hadn’t worked out and had ended on both sides,...
View ArticleSubmission
He's been away for several days, in that time he's barely eaten, not had a bed or regular food, and hardly slept. He is sunburned and he's cut his finger badly. He is exhausted and what does he do?He...
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Elust 111
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View ArticlePetting
I'm a caregiver by nature and I like the people I like to be happy. In my Pre-Schatzi relationships, I tended to end up playing almost a service-top role more than a dominant one. There's nothing wrong...
View ArticleSmell
I couldn't sleep last night. My bed smelled like HappyClouds or whatever the laundry detergent is called. I much prefer it when it smells like the people who have been in it.Perhaps it's the feral,...
View ArticleDoes a Dominant need to be a submissive first?
Does a dominant (top) need to be a submissive (bottom) first? That's a question that pops up in the BDSM community quite a bit. I'm not sure where that idea started but it's out there and it doesn't...
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Elust 113
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Sleeping on the floor
I've been chatting with a new potential submissive partner lately. Last night before I crawled into my nice warm bed, (that I am in complete love with lately, by the way) I thought I'd send him a...
View ArticleFlashback - Sleeping on the floor
My recent experience with someone sleeping on the floor has me thinking about a few decades ago when I was still delusional and trying to be submissive.As I've said before, I was very bad at it and...
View ArticleGifts?
Submission is a gift (trophy, medallion, donut, diploma, insert your preferred word here). Given to the D type that has earned the honor through displays of respect and the building of trust.But what...
View ArticleNot Micromanaging My Pleasure
When it comes to my partner pleasing me, (through massage, all over kisses, stroking, oral, or sex), I prefer to just lay back and enjoy.There seems to be this idea that the Domme in question is going...
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Elust 114
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Elust 115
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View ArticleBreathing
My mental illness has been winning the fight for control of my brain for the last 7 months or so. I would win a battle now and then, but the war raged on, and not in my favor. Then, I received new...
View ArticleFrustrated whimpers
My main kink is for reactions. I adore those little gasps of breath, the whimpers, the moment when the skin starts to pinken. If I touch Schatzi in a certain way, he tenses his entire body for a...
View ArticlePoly Problems
In polyamourous realtionships, the partners of your partner (that you aren't romantically involved with) are referred to as metamours. Also, in polyamorous relationships feelings of jealousy or envy...
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Elust120
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View ArticleThe Other
It’s been far too long since someone rested their cheek on my foot, wrapped their arms around my waist and held on seeking comfort after harshness.Too long since I’ve released the part of myself that...
View ArticleControl
In my ongoing quest to find another D/s relationship, I've talked to a lot of men who identify as submissive online. A lot of these men view submission as a fetish and are therefore only interested in...
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Elust 123
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